Tuesday, March 06, 2007

Goal Setting

There are two main reasons to set goals in counseling. The first is to give the client direction and the second is to help them make plans for change.

Goals need to be internalized so that the person believe that they can make a change inside themselves. If they can't believe it for themselves, as a counselor we can believe it for them. Goals also need to be externalized, that is making the change happen and continuing the change.

It is important to set up goals and time frames for treatment. Goals must be believable to the person themselves as well as the therapist. Goals also need to be achievable. It must be in their ability to do the task.

Goals may be done in session or at home. There are Long Term Goals and Short Term Goals. Long term goals are set to help the person see the results that are to be obtained. It is not important that these goals be completed while still in counseling they may be longer term than the sessions themselves.

Short term goals are the steps to accomplish the long term goals. They are action steps and are usually accomplished while in counseling.

You do not need to be in counseling to set goals for yourself. You can do them right there at your computer right now. Determine what you would like to change in yourself. Once you have a list of things, start with the first one. Ask yourself, "How would I like to be different in one (1) year concerning this issue. Then write down the steps that you will need to accomplish that issue.

Here is an example. Say you would like to exercise to get into better health. The long term goal would be: Get into better health with exercise. The short term goals would be the steps to help you reach that goal. Some examples of short term goals would be: 1) exercise at least one time this week for at least 20 minutes 2) next week I will exercise at least two time 3) within one month exercise at least four times a week. These are incremental goals that are achievable. If you started out with step 3 you might feel discouraged even before you got started.

Here is hoping that you will set out to make some changes in your life. Do not get discouraged, inch by inch anything is a cinch.

Blessings
Carol

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